T- i hate to even think this - but from what you have mentioned about him - he seemed to have been a fairly sharp man with numbers in his career. so it leads to two thoughts 1.drugs/alcohol/prescription drugs or 2. his 10 year old girlfriend did the papers for him. (sorry had to throw her under the bus for you!!)
he was smart - something is wrong - (i am wondering seriously if he is medicated.. valum? hydrocodone? something "legal" but dangerous.)
you know that the judge will see just what you see. think about this.. seriously... they probably see stuff like this all the time.
sorry you are struggling.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again