ST, you are right, after two years it is hard to initiate. The first time my XW (that's still wierd!) "turned off", it was for about three years. Somehow, during that time, I'd still send up a trial balloon now and then, and finally, one day, it was caught. The second time, after the first year or so, it became clear that the trial balloons were not welcome in the least. At that point even hugs were out. But you know, even then, if she had shown any interest (at least until fairly recently), I would have been there. Maybe it's just me.
(((((((mindfull))))))) Get yourself well. That's job one, two, and three. There's time for the rest after that.
