There are a couple of WAS's who post on these forums (and are doing all of us a fine service by doing so). There's even a section for walk-away spouses, but it doesn't seem to get as much traffic as the Newcomers forum...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement