Hi Sandycay, Just caught up with you- so sorry things fell apart. Sounds like your head is in a good place and you've got a plan of action. You thought our situations were similar..well H told me last night he was moving out and wanted a divorce. No lollygagging..he doesn't have a plan for where/how he'll live but he wants to move on.
So I can totally relate to the range of emotions you've been going through and only hope that I come out as clear-headed and strong as you.
I am particularly worried about my girls going through this again. Not sure what kind of fall-out it will cause in their lives.
Anyway- I think you are doing remarkably well! Way to go!
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.