"See here SP: I moved on, I'm happy, I have this man who really likes me and who I really like, and I'm sick and tired of you being angry about something that's in the past, so I want you to stop." Tick, tick, tock....90 minutes later, "Okay, goodbye."
She didn't really tell you how you should feel did she? Call her immediately on that BS if she did. That's the differentiation (boundary) thing - she (and you) need to respect where one of you stops and the other starts. You are too wise to let this continue.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
