I've been reading DB & DR for weeks. He doesn't know.

He kept screaming at me to get out. He later said I can have the house, which I can't afford on my own. Makes sense to let him stay there since he can afford it. Also, we have animals, which I can't bring with me. No human kids.

I was going to the house 2 - 3 times a week. Now, I just want to get the things I need so I don't need to see/talk to him. Seems the only way to salvage is total withdraw on my part.

Also: OW initially pursed him. She is single, knew he was married.

Last edited by Ruined; 12/02/09 10:29 PM.
M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
1: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized1
2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3