Well, initially she disclosed her feelings openly and honestly. She did lie about traveling out of with the OP. She has regular phone contact. I do not look at her phone record. I do not look at her email. I They also work togather so they are with each other several days each week.We discussed this in counseling. In counseling, she said this is just a friendship and she does not have romantic feelings for this person. I have no alternative but to accept this version of the truth, understanding it may change because she is mixed up.
could you clarify what she disclosed "openly and honestly" about the other man?
what has she said about this guy other then they are just friends? think back a little in time, did his name come up alot in conversation even though it really wasnt necessary he needed to be brought up?
you say she has regular phone contact. how often? every day? a couple times a day? esp. on the days they do not work together? they into text messaging each other? have you checked out the online billing lately to see how much time they spent together when apart?
how often they work together? what shift? what do they do that this special friendship happened to form? do they have to work on late night projects and get things done over the weekend?
does she come home later than usual lately? maybe little tipsy? smiling but totally not into being around you? or maybe angry at you friday night through monday morning? is she out of the house as much as she possibly can? she ever come home at 2am in the morning and wash the clothes she wore first thing in the morning?
been through her underwear drawer lately? any new victoria secret purchases? alot of hair stuck in the razor in the shower?
I'm just curious how much she is struggling.
Originally Posted By: Wonderful!
I think she is struggling with it.
oh, since they are such good friends have you considered maybe you and your wife should have him and his wife over for dinner during the holidays. meet him. meet his wife. get a feel for the vibes between everyone involved here?
