Do not file if you are not ready to. Of course your family wants you to be happy but you have to do what YOU want. Everyone makes mistakes (the "obnoxious" messages you sent) but chalk it up to an experience and don't send them again. Do not engage him at all. Also, you didn't have to leave your house at all, he couldn't make you. As far as the EA/PA goes, if you haven't made it clear you are not willing to share him with anyone else, do it. Then lay low. Very low. Stealth. Be cool, okay?
