Friends/family are pushing for me to file. I'm not sure what I want to do.
H said he wanted D 9/09. Total surprise to me. Later that day find proof of EA w/co-worker. H says 'just a friend'. Over last 3 months, H steps up text/phone calls with OW.
H. forces me out of house 10/27. Suspect that EA has become PA. H. still insists just friends. H. has gone from ILY to ILYBINILWY.
Send obnoxious, accusatory messages to both last week. H. is refusing to speak to me at all now. Stupid on my part, I know.
We had been having pleasant times together recently. Seems when I apply no pressure & agree to D, he is receptive to working on R. I think I've blown all that goodwill.
Unsure of how to procede. Also unsure if I should even try to salvage M. Even if he where to end EA/PA, he will still have to work with OW in the future.
He hasn't filed at this point.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
