If he continues down the path he's on, the world will finally see him for who he is. What the heck does he think will happen to your daughter if she's around you? You are her mother and have taken care of her just about her entire life up until this last event.
Your d is old enough to know what she wants to do. I do hope that everything will pass muster and you and your family can have a calm and peaceful Christmas.
Hang in there. Sending you positive thoughts.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
