Tonight, I will try my best to keep my cool and will:
Listen Validate Empathize
Only 6 more hours to go until the kids go to bed.
MG,
I was going to respond, but you have already gotten some great advice. I will keep you in my prayers.
Just remember, he can't make you talk about or do anything you do not want to. You can always fall back to the validating his feelings and "I really need to think about that" if he presses you to make a decision.