Oh, and 99% of what your H is telling you is script. I have read the same things in other sitchs and heard the same things in my own.
Yep, my H said the same thing. He doesn't want to lead me on or make me think things are better than they are or give me false hope...blah blah blah.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month