hoping for better times to come

[Ready2Change]

Sweetie,

I wish you well tonight.

One last bit of advise. If you can have a canned response for "THE WORST THING HE CAN SAY", then everything else will be easy.

One example:

H: I want D.
U: "I am sorry you feel that way. I do not want D. I see many other options to our issues. But if you feel that is your only option, I will not stand in your way."


If he pushes for other options:

H: I have tried for years BLABLABLA.... What options do you see?
U: "Before I can move on, together or apart, I feel it is important to go to consoling because I want to understand how we got to this point and prevent it from ever happening to me again."


I need to run.

My thoughts are with you. Remember that everything will be OK no matter what H chooses.

HUGS