The only thing keeps grinding in my heart is the fact that she has a crush on this old boyfriend and he is not giving her the time of day. Personally i think that the more he rejects her the more she wants him. I should take his medicine. Cuz it works for him.
And you are missing another "reality" that is going over your head regarding rejecting..
She is also rejecting you and you keep wanting her...
So, to ME.. The reality is that the people that are doing the rejecting are the ones that have the other person that is chasing.....
THINK DEEPLY about that..
You are getting rejected and you keep trying. SHE is getting rejected and she keeps trying...
You are the one trying with her and it isn't working. SHE is the one trying with him and it isn't working...
FOLLOW REALITY.. Reality is your friend...
Now.. This is a fairly normal phenomenon in relationships. Most people just can't or won't accept the reality..
Who on this site are the ones "trying" the most?
The rejected ones... The ones who keep trying....
Your answer is to STOP trying.. Go out get a life and have some fun. Start interacting with the opposite sex. And have the TIME of your life. Let her think you could care less who she sees or who she is with.....
Go read the thread from the new WS.. I think her name is Soleil....
She says she was the WAW.. She now wants to reconcile.. That means her husband was the BS, right?
don't analyze what she has done or did, but observe how HE has handled her leaving.. Notice that he didn't beg. Notice that he put her stuff out in the yard and called her and told her to come get her stuff. Notice that HE did the initial filing of papers and such....
He has done the COMPLETE opposite of what people on this site do...
Notice though, that SHE wants HIM back and now SHE feels rejected even though SHE left...
REALITY GUYS.. follow reality..
reality shows over and over and over that hanging in there, chasing, pursuing and acting all nicey nice does NOT work....
Soleil LEFT.. He did basically nothing to get her back and look who is NOW not sure.. HER..THE WAW..
