there's a bit of a morbid fascination for me in wondering what will happen once the love chemicals wear off and these 2 profoundly self-centered people recognize each other for who they really are. no, I don't wish them pain and disaster, only to gain some understanding that their choices have caused great pain for other people--including innocent victims like their children. their decisions have had serious repercussions for others, but they seem to have had no consequences. but I think they're both fairly narcissistic (I know xh is for a fact) and as such, their capacity for empathy is quite limited.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012