My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[BeingMe]

Why don't you make finding a dozen relatives your 12 days of Christmas? You could even do an advent calendar.

A good idea! However, I see the need for HM to vent her feelings here. And, I agree with Puppy ... I have no sympathy for OM/OW. They are predators, unless they are unaware the WAS is married. But one should always try and find these things out.

And the OW in HM's case knew exactly what she was doing. I have no doubt that she will eventually fall prey to HM's ex-husband's 'sacrificing' personality. But, she's not a giver (only a taker, like XH), so it probably won't bother her at all.

Vent away, HM.