It is astounding that she can say ILYBNILWY, carry on an EA to some degree and at the same time look to me for endless support.
We call that "cake-eating" around here.
Why should she stop it? She's got the best of both worlds. She gets all of the perks of being married to you while committing emotionally to the other guy.
Only way for it to end is for you to set the boundary; no sharing your wife with another man.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement