Now I have come to realize that I was waiting for my wife to keep her promise to me and that waiting patiently isn't going to result in my getting what I need. I realize that there must be things that I am not giving her that she needs or that there must be past pain I have caused her that has helped to create the situation we are in.
I don't know how long that took, but in terms of your arrival on the forum, you're months ahead of me.
