My H is in a Ph.D program at MSU. We have become close friends with a couple. I know he has seen them once since he left and that they know.

Today I received an email from her wondering how I was and that she missed me and would like to get together for coffee.

I know my H is depressed and it is taking a toll on his school work. I am wondering if other people in the program are seeing it too and that is why she wants to talk to me or if it is just truly a friendship "how are you doing" meeting.

Thoughts. How do you deal with friends that you both shared?


M - 41
WAH - 41
D - 20
M-21 years
T-24 years
Separated - Nov 6, 2009