Somedays everything makes so much sense then other days I find myself confused like crazy.
Move on since I know I deserve better than the way she treated me OR Live up to the promises I made her about always being there.
Life sucks sometimes. I do fine when I am not thinking about the hurt she caused. I do fine when I decide to do my part to save our marriage.
I feel the exact same way in my sitch. Right now the only thing I can do is work on me while giving him what he's asked for - time and space. My WAH does a lot of the same back-and-forth as your WAW and talks about "finding himself" as well. I've been thinking it's a MLC on his part as well. I know I'm confused b/c he's confused. We're just confused in different ways.
Me: 30 Him: 31 M: 4 yrs; T: 10 yrs No children Bomb: 10/4/09 S: 11/16/09 D proceedings begin: January 2010
