#67 Cant find my "pieces"

[saffie]

Kalni,

I think all those things on your list are fine things.....and do-able. Have you told him?

And I TOTALLY get the car thing

We have also changed our bed even though OW was never near it. My H DID let her near my kids - no changing them I guess , (though sorely tempted to try trading DD2 at the moment!!!)

I get stuck with dates - I think I may have said to you that last time he was 'with' OW was on my youngest D's B'day one year. I still feel sick every time it is her B'day and I really begrudge my H that.

You can do this Maria if you want to. Your H needs to give you the incentive to a make you want this, if he wants it. He's a man, ( no offence to you great DB men), he may need it spelling out if you haven't already done so. If you have, how about a sign on the door with your bullet points that you posted.....just as a reminder to him?