I am not complaining. Actually a very stunning development just happened. If you know the history of animosity between me and my MIL, this will stun you.
My W just changed her email address to list her first name and middle name and took our last name out of it.
At the same time, I just got an IM from my W saying not to get my hopes up, but her mom is talking about inviting me over with the rest of the family for Christmas now. Apparently that gesture I did last night for her really touched her. W wanted to know if I was interested in coming over there for Christmas with them. I said ya. Let me know. I think that would be great. She said she will let me know.
Wow. Who would have thought? On the one hand, my W is further separating her name from us with her new email, on the other, somehow a miracle has occured within her mom to have a softening heart towards me now.
I'm stunned, and grateful Stuck.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...