I always agree with you generally, and I agree with mos of this post. But this:
Originally Posted By: cutterbug
I would give the end the affair by this day or your gone. Say it and walk away. End of dicussion.
I must respectfully disagree with.
The problem with giving an adulteress a hard deadline (say, January 1st), is that they will:
a) Take this as your tacit approval of them to carry on their affair until December 31st; at which time they will
b) Promise you the moon and the stars, and beg like crazy, for you not to follow thru on your consequence.
It's kinda like telling the terrorists you're going to remove your troops on June 1st. They just lay low for the next 7 months, wait you out, and then when you leave they take over the country.
