A month ago I found a condom in her purse, she said it was from a girl's toy party of 3 years ago and that's she's not having an affair.
She's having a affair.
keep working on yourself, bust up the affair and lovingly detach.
Go look at Wonderfuls thread, read up on the boundary setting and how to get your self-respect back.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
