Sad Girl... for having such a bummer name, you are quite humorous! I enjoy reading your posts. LOL
My vote is to let him know when the party is, and let him step up to suggest an alternate time to see them. If he's a decent dad, and they enjoy seeing them, and it doesn't add anymore stress to your life... I'm sure you could use a break, too!
My Gosh! FOUR of them - 12 and under?
Wonder Woman!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
