((((SuperG))))) (that's a great name!) "I feel like he has done so much damage, I have no idea how we could ever recover."
I posted almost these same words in my thread the other day. Our sitches are different but I totally get how you feel here. You are in good hands w VH & Trent, but here's my 2 cents. I see at least 1 goal from your posts: To provide for & protect your kids. And from what I read, looks like you are doing a great job at this. What your D said to you made my eyes water.
I'm almost 9 mos. into S (H left end of March) & I'm just NOW starting to make decisions about what to do. If I had kids I might have had to move much quicker. But seems like you are doing all the right things, & most importantly being a pillar for your kids. It's such a lonnnng hard process, this WAS thing. You'll get there; your strength shows through. Talk to VH, his advice is good. You have my support!
