hoping for better times to come

[Ready2Change]

R2C - Don't think I can avoid the R talk when H comes home tonight. H does not really have the access to check his email at work (construction site) so emailing him back probably won't work.
But your input would be greatly appreciated.

If R talk happens:

1) It is your RESPONSIBILITY to JUST LISTEN! (And remember every detail to share with us)
2) VALIDATE what he says:

I see why you would feel that way
I can understand why you would feel that way
It must be hard to feel that way
mmmmm
YES.

3) DO NOT REACT, Postpone responding:

Remember, when in doubt, say "I don't know how I feel about that; let me think about it and get back to you".