suddenly now after a week, not going to concilliation, ignoring me and d2, he has a care or concern, but not when his mother was watching d2 with dirty diapers, in pj's all day long, dirty and fat lip.

i feel like it's a test, he said oh well i thought you disconnected your phone and the last time you sent me a bunch of msgs i did not respond to, oh i know we are angry at one another, i asked how you were but really only wanted to know about d2. .

i agree i'm not going to respond. he freaking left us a month ago, has not done anythign for us.

i feel like it's a test to see if i'm going to bite and talk to him.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline