hoping for better times to come

[Ready2Change]

Here is a first draft:

H,

I am glad to read your true feelings. I am sorry you felt it was my responsibility to approach you. I understand that you have been under incredible stress while looking out for our family. The responsibilities for a family are more than I ever imagined. It must have been hard for you getting depressed and complacent and thinking it was just you. We both made choices that got us to this point.

I am sorry you feel that I haven't been attracted to you since DD1 was born. I am sorry that we have drifted apart.
I can see why you don't see either of us compromising, but I see many ways we can compromise. I feel that it is important for us to compromise. What humongous attempt would you like to see? I am still attracted to you and I would prefer you sharing the same bed.