Thanks Puppy. I'll see if I can draft something tonight and run it past the forum. My understanding from my initial consult with lawyer is that my state does not have "alimony" or anything like that (except in very rare circumstances, like a 65+ yo wife who's been prevented from working her whole life), but I'll need to clarify that. I've left a message for atty to call me, so hopefully I'll be able to find out more soon.
As far as the "will continue to meet the family's needs and obligations" part...does that include W? I guess I'm still a little unclear. I'm continuing to meet the obligations and needs of myself and S7, which I guess is "the family" at this point, since she has decided to no longer be a part of it. But, we are still legally married, so I don't know if W would be considered part of "the family" or not.
Me 45 WAW 36 S8 T 15 M 12 Multiple PA's since 6/07 W moved out 10/25/09 I filed D 12/29/09 Sitch