OK, so for now let's not think about DBing in terms of getting him back. Let's not even worry about whether you want him back.
Time to step even further back. What do you want for you and the kids, in the long term. But not to fuzzy! (And I keep forgetting how old they are, I may be getting old!)
One more thing.... what you are feeling is pretty common. And I think it's good to a degree. I think too many people try to save things before they know why, or even if, they really want to. So, let's take some time, and look at Super Girl's future!
