I hope everyone is doing well today. I can use some input if anyone can help. Background: H's L sent sep. agrmt. to my L. Got it last weekend. Has a number of things wrong or left out. My L said we should talk end of this week so she can respond. I dont' think that's enough time given how busy my job is now. I need to pull 401K statements etc. Here's my question:

I emailed H yesterday to ask him to call our cell phone carrier to remove me from plan. (It's a family plan in his name & he had to call in order for me to keep same #). Fine. So today he replys, OK done. Did you get the letter from my L? How should I reply? I want to say, "H, I did receive it & am going to go over w L. I will not be rushed into an agrmt. just to satisfy you." I'm seething, but I am still trying to be civil & DB even though my hope is so so little now. Is that too nasty? I feel I need to set a boundary on his pressuring me but have problems wording it correctly.

BTW, I'm 99.9% sure he's living w OW but still admits zip to me. Thanks for any thoughts here.