H did say his therapist made a point of saying nothing is permanent-that people marry and divorce and remarry all the time.
Now why would he go out of the way to tell you that? Don't worry, and please do not answer that, you can't. Some people HAVE to set upon a course of action, as flawed and stupid as that course might be.
K, you live for you and your kids, and you fix yourself. When or if he realizes his path is the wrong path and turns around, you might be there for him. That is up to you. This is all up to you. You do not see it right now, but you are in control of this marriage...not him. Your relationship isn't over until you say it is.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
