Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Well just got off the phone with BIL. He told me that she is going to have me served right as I get off the plane. Classy huh? Especially if my boys are there. She called him Monday crying, saying that I cut her off from the money. He asked her "what did you expect him to do?" And then he asked her if I was paying the bills, she said yes, then he told her "what are you crying about then?" He said she said ya, you're right, and changed the subject. She also told him that she was "done". So much drama, and so many things going through my head...