me: the question on the table is what do you want to do XW: whatever flows natural and feels right
Keep in mind you know the mood I'm in this week! Plus, I'm a natural worrier. But....that sounds like typical WAS speak to me, "whatever flows natural and feels right"? I think esp. with kids involved, things have to go slow, and she will have to do work to earn on the R and to earn your trust back. If she's ready to do that fine, but if not, I think you need to run for the hills....D, I do think you have the right attitude now, but if she's not willing to get on board, then that's a huge red flag, which I know you already know.
