Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

Brit,
I wish I had the progress youve made..Keep fighting the fight and dont settle..I realized thats what ive been doing for a long time.

Go back and look at britt's entire thread. She had a hard struggle to get to where she is now; I know, because I was one of the ones chucking 2x4s at her regularly.

But her story should show that if you can muster the strength to work the process, it can pay off for you. (There are no promises, because it ultimately lies with the wayward spouse to come back.)

P.S. Good job so far, britt. Keep doing what you're doing, and check in with us if you hit a rough spot. Remember, when in doubt, say "I don't know how I feel about that; let me think about it and get back to you".