I hope so. I'm going to mention the whole fraud thing to my L. X just emailed me that he mailed the check on Monday he says, so if that's true (he lives half hour away) I should get it today. He said he doesn't have to pay me until the 4th (when he is paid this week). I emailed back he made me have a weeks delay when he switched from the court-ordered biweekly payments a year ago to the 1st and 15th he said he wanted to pay instead, and if he's doing that again it's not fair. He also said he's given me copies of all her schoolwork, which is not true. Only since I requested a month ago, and usually a couple days late so he can make copies.
I finished my divorce stuff for the L. I wrote the truth and it prob. sounds pretty bad. I wrote re: his emotional health which they consider re: his anger issues. They had an other factor at the end where you could list other factors to consider they don't list, and I mentioned his abusive behavior to me as a factor. All the other stuff re: schoolwork and problems with custody. Too harsh? I want to take the high road, am doing this I hope for the best of the kids. I don't want to get ugly, but I'm afraid it already is.
Scared to think I could be homeless next week, depending on the judge's rulings!!!! At least it will be good to have over. I mean do things get easier and less calm. I hope so...
