I have exposed the A to my close friends. I have told a few work friends as well. I have exposed the affair to our couple friends since my WAW failed to mention it to them when she told them she was moving out and seeking a divorce.

It is my understanding that the A is now an "open secret", even among the students, at the school where WAW regularly substitute teaches and OM teaches full-time.

I have not gone on any dates and do not expect/plan too until at least this is resolved.

Finances are in check. Not much blood in the turnip.