Part of me thinks it's best to simply be the best I can be and stop snooping/obsessing. The other part of me wants to scream and stomp around. Hmm, what to do....any thoughts??
Do BOTH.
Some choose to snoop to find "the truth" and others do not snoop to protect themselves. Make your choice.
Obsessing is not healthy. Reflect on things, make positive changes to YOU and do your best when making new choices.
It is OK to be angry. If you choose to channel that energy into screaming ans stomping, do it away from spouse. I do it a rock concerts.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
