Tristan and Gnosis, thank you both for the kind and supportive words. They all mean a lot to me and are helping me right now to cope with what I had to do this morning.
Now, the ball is in her court (so to speak) as we will wait for their comments.
I will continue to follow Coach's advice on taking parrallel paths.
I have now retaken control. It doesn't make me feel any better, but I KNOW it is better.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present