Not wanting to be on this boat........

[TrentC]

well today is going to be a bad day, she is going to file today and is full speed ahead on the D now. She has threatened me, told me to leave the house or she would call the police and accuse me of abuse, screamed and yelled like a crazy person in front of our son.

Document this stuff; it'll come in handy when custody issues come up.

Also I have found out that the OM has filed for D from his W to be final on Friday and it is being handled by the same attorney that W is using.

Charming.

One thing to keep in mind is that rebound relationships -- especially relationships that begin out of infidelity -- rarely work out. They may have this master plan to be together, but having a real relationship is a lot different than sneaking around in an affair. (This doesn't necessarily mean that she will come back to you, but if she wants to you need to have a plan if you want to take her back...)

To add to all of that both of her sisters are leaving/breaking up with their boyfriends and are planning on moving into my house once I am gone and they have this master plan to raise my son on their own?!!?!!?

That won't last long; it sounds like they're all in a fog.

Your best bet is to fight for custody of your kid, which brings us back to documenting and recording all of the venom she is spewing at you -- especially the parts where she announces that she is going to lie to the police about abuse.

I don't know what to say anymore I am a strong person but this has gotten to be too much. I feel broken.

You're not broken; your wife is, and she's sweeping everyone else up in the storm that she has turned her life into.

Be strong for your kid. He is going to need it.