For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[courts0818]

So...
Do I greet him when he comes home? Say goodbye when he leaves? Let him know when dinner's ready? Do I initiate any type of conversation? Do I tell him the things DD did that day?

I forgot to add this - Do I try to engage the 3 of in playing with DD - like us all playing catch with a ball or playing a board game? That's a good thing, right?