I really appreciate the counsel I am recieving here. Yes, I want to listen to what works. Honestly I have calmly and clearly told W that boundries have been crossed and do not accept these behaviors. I told her this one on one and in counseling. I have not linked the conduct with any specific consequences. (If you don't stop, I am leaving, etc.--it just isn't true). Beyond this, what further specific steps would you recommend? Again, I really appreciate the input and I am open to challenging my thinking.
