Cookie, your writing skills and style are as great as ever. You are a special one.

Hey Montana can you provide a lot more background. You have not provided enough information and I fear you might start following advice offered when no one really knows what is going on with you.

IF you see the tension easing, then perhaps stay the path. 3 weeks is not that long.

The advice you will get from the Puppy/Gucci/Robx is hardline affair battling stuff. If your wife has no OM, then perhaps a kindler gentler path would serve you best...but see, now I am giving you advice but until I know more, my advice also is worth, at best, what you are paying for it.

Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted