My W is worried that I will find out about things she is doing that are "wrong". She gets anxiety from having to worry that I will find out. The longer we stay in this limbo the easier it is for her slip up and I find out. In my state infidelity is a crime if proven. That means it has serious consequences for her during proceedings for a D.

She always references that no one is "breaking the law" which means she is messing around just not having intercourse in the traditional sense which breaks the law.

My W many times thought I was having an PA or EA. I never did. And never would. That is just not me. But it was a tell tale sign of things to come...that 20 20 vision into the past.

Actually to answer your question. She takes my GPS and then gives it back to me with all addresses wiped out. Funny how that happens. She has a phone and I pay for it as she doesn’t have a job. The free ride is what is irritating me now. But there is nothing I can do about it and it will last 13 more years