Please don’t do anything rash. If she wants to leave, let her. But unless you really want to leave, don’t do it to try to prove any point to her.
The confusion is your friend. Although it will also keep you on the rollercoaster if you let it. Keep doing what you need to do for you. Listen to her, recognize what she says for what it is. There is merit in her words believe it or not. You just have to sift through the BS to find it.
Do your best to make the holidays the best for you and your kids. That is what is important right now. She will find her way when she is ready.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
