With no consequences it hasn't been addressed. Without transparency you are just naive.
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I believe a husband should support his wife.
Absolutely, when she needs help, love, patience etc. However is she acting like your wife right now? She's giving all the things that should go to her husband to another man. At this point she foregoes the other privileges that come with being your wife. She will cake-eat as long as you let her.
Your beacon of light is not attatractive to her. Imagine if the roles were reversed - would you be interested in a woman who let you carry on a affair without standing up for herself?
You don't get it yet. You will ignore, fight and dismiss the advice here because you want to be a "nice guy." Who is your wife giving her affection to right now a "nice guy" ? You might think you are being strong and honorable but what kind of man allows a predator to dishonor his wife? That's the brutal reality.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
