I think the A has been clearly addressed. Of course, ultimately it is up to her. If she is a WAW, there is little more I can do than make it clear that her conduct is unacceptable and be a beacon of light. (I read a very nice post from Hopeforus on this issue.) I mean, I have spoken my truth on this topic
She came around a bit yesterday. For the last week, I have aspired to go dark. Last night she opened up about some things that were bothering her at work. I offered support and counsel but did not attempt to solve the problems. She also has asked for a large financial committment from me to grow her business. I told her we would have to discuss it. She wanted to discuss last night. I politely but firmly declined the invitation. I think this is cake eating. The hell of it is, there is no doubt in my mind that I would make the committment. Whatever our problems, however doubtful our future, and regardless of her conduct, she is my wife and I her husband. I believe a husband should support his wife. Anyway, I guess this is an example of this cake eating. I'd appreciate any input or insight anyone has to offer.
