Originally Posted By: volleydog
You sound like you're head is in the exact right spot, good for you.

The only thing I may nit-pik with is the last text you sent...I understand the intent but sometimes texts can be taken wrong because the person reading doesn't know the "tone".

Keep up the good work.


Hey v-dag.

Nah, it's ok, she' knows without question my tone where the kids is concerned. And if whatever reason she mis-read it, there suredly would have been a response, and she no problem exchanging 'goodnight wishes' later on. So, it's cool.

Yes, I am very happy with where my head is at right now. It's nice to finally know, from the person who made me feel so unwanted, so rejected, and so worthless, that I am not. And it is really nice to have the stance that I can chose whoever I want to be with. They may hurt me the same as XW did, or they may not, so it's up to XW to show me why I should chose to be with THE person who DID hurt me that way.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11