LOL, I do my best around her...I was prepared to see the house decorated, thought the tree would be decorated, we've done it as a family every year...I expected it to be decorated, wonder if she'll ask me to help when I bring the kids back on Sunday...

One thing I am struggling with is the past two years I've gone over in the morning to be there for the kids to open presents, (MIL, FIL and SIL were there)...If she asks to do that this year I'm not sure I want to go and the reason is kind of selfish I think...I'm not going to get EX or in-laws anything for Christmas and assuming they'll do the same, I just don't really want to go there and watch everyone open gifts but me but I also don't want to miss being there for kids on Christmas morning...


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."